Friday, October 26, 2012

Modern Family Ep. 4: The Incident


1.     Summary: 
In this episode Mom shows up (Jay’s ex-wife. DeDe Pritchett lives at a "facility" in Sedona, she got Cameron an exercise machine (or a "hint", as he called it) as a thank you for some very nice diamond earrings last Christmas, and she needs to move on to the next level of her "awakening". This requires her to move past "the incident."
DeDe wanted to be invited to the wedding to prove she was "over" Jay and Gloria getting married, and Mitchell convinced them to invite her. She had a few too many drinks and gave a toast that was completely outlandish. She was dragged out kicking and screaming...and mocking Gloria...and had wedding cake all over her backside. The entire family now calls this the incident.
Claire wished she had Gloria's problems, as Haley wants to go to a concert with Dylan that would require her to stay overnight with a bunch of male friends. Haley is being her usual confrontational self, Claire is being her usual strict self, and Phil is being his usual completely useless self.
DeDe needs to make her apologies because she met a very nice man, Chaz, and plans to live in a faraway place...French Canada. However, without making peace with the family, she won't be able to be satisfied...sexually. Which she describes to Mitchell and Cameron in graphic detail.
The first stop for Mitchell is Claire's house. DeDe is glad to see her "little comet" (Haley) and proceeds to shoot down the concert objections by telling Haley about her mom and Ricky (Claire’s high school boyfriend). DeDe never got to know Ricky, and it would appear Claire is not willing to meet Dylan. Claire decides she'll "interview" Dylan at dinner and make her decision.
Mitchell's next stop is Jay's house. He is alone, because Manny decided to take Jay's advice for revenge after getting a beard drawn on him at a slumber party...by setting fire to the kid's bike. Jay pretends the conversation with Mitchell about Dede coming to dinner is not even happening.
Dinner comes and Dylan arrives. DeDe thinks he's got a very gentle soul. Gloria arrives and wants nothing to do with DeDe. However, DeDe appears sincere and apologizes for her behavior at the wedding.
Dede was completely unprepared for Gloria to accept he apology, so a fight ensues. Not to worry, though. Phil's got Gloria. (I'm not going to try and do it justice; watch the episode and you'll laugh your head off.)
Dylan thinks this is so beautiful, because in this family, DeDe is trying to reach out to hang on to “something awesome”. Nobody talks in his family, but Haley has this "killer confidence that's accepting of hot foreigners, gay dudes, and nutty people." Claire is touched and encourages Dylan to play one of his songs. The songs chorus is: “The stars all fall from the sky, and you're the breeze in my life. The moon is shining on your face, because it finally feels it has found its place. 'Cause maybe, baby, I just wanna DO YOU! Wanna DO YOU! Under the moonlight! The moonlight!” Well, the song is very catchy, as everybody is singing it the next day, but no concert for Haley.
2.     Theme:
It was really hard for me to pinpoint the theme of this episode. This family is pretty crazy. However, I think that the theme is acceptance. The family accepts that all of them are individually a little nuts, and they give one another grace for the things that they do wrong to each other. This can by seen by their unconventional family dynamic.
3.     Perspectives via scripture:
Jesus was very accepting of all people groups. One example is of the woman at the well, which shows that he is accepting of those who are outcasts. Jesus would have been accepting of all of the members of this family…whether or not they returned that acceptance. I think this is very important for our culture because sometimes we treat people as outcasts when we shouldn’t be. 

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